BE QUIET!,SIT DOWN!,BEHAVE!,LEAVE THAT! Often times our lives are literally bombarded with these militant commands due to the obstinate behavior of our precocious young lings.As our anger seethes to immeasurable levels and the heat on our heads rises to an unbearable degree we realize that we are slowly losing control. The tension in the room continues to mount because we have allowed our voices to escalate beyond normal indoor parameters and a hint of regret eventually enters the picture.
How can we keep ourselves from descending into this survival conundrum that lends itself to pity or remorse soon after without reward?
A Time out, can invariably become quite a pleasurable retreat for you and the kiddies if approached with a little practice and care.Which ever method you consider may take a little tweaking to accommodate the personality and age of your child. Although extremely cliche in its terminology,it does work wonders when properly employed .I find that leaving the room or sending the child away before unpleasant comments are uttered either way is paramount.I prefer to walk out of the room breaking into random songs of praise and worship this I have noticed does tangibly neutralize the toxic acidity in the air almost immediately.
I have encountered many argumentative persons that would rally their venomous tirade until they bled if it meant they won a disagreement,from such-turn away I say.We can change where most disagreements go by simply limiting our involvement in the discourse with our words or actions.Might I even suggest humming a tune,walking away,or actually volunteering a kind word in the midst of the verbal tryst.Any of these subtle pleasantries could possibly disarm the most tactical and malevolent contender.
Yes Praise and Worship is the key to changing any negative or conflicting mood that would ultimately lead to an undesirable or regrettable aftermath.
What are your thoughts?
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